The wedding ceremony takes time, and your guests can get tired of waiting. You can have snacks for your guests as they enter. This will give them anticipation of what is to come.
This depends on the mood of the couple. Hosting cocktails at the beginning of the ceremony will get the guests to know each other and mingle. These will remove all the awkwardness during the ceremony and give it more life.
You can serve champagne sparkling water to your guests before they start the ceremony.
They can have more cocktails during the reception, so keep it moderate.
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Bring Fun to Your Flower Bouquet
The flower bouquet does not have to be only for the bride. Have the bridesmaids have your favorite flowers, such as flower bouquets of different colors or neutrals, depending on your taste.
The flowers can be those that are at the wedding venue.
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Plan Pre-wedding Activities
If your wedding is a destination one or it is near a scenic place, you can have a small tour before the ceremony.
This will help with cold feet and will make you more relaxed.
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Write Your Thank You Ahead of Time
When your guests arrive, write down a thank you for your guests. Have small cards at the entrance that they are given to thank them for attending the event, and it is a great honor to have them at the ceremony.
You can also hang thank you cards at the ceremony. The cards can be included in the flower centerpieces.
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Share a Love Note
The last day as a single person and to reminisce the honeymoon phase of your dating journey.
The love notes can be hidden in places, such as in flowers, where each couple is given a map to find the hidden notes. The activity can be fun for the couple.
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Go Non-traditional With Your Walk
In the traditional walk, the bride is escorted by either the parents. The bride can choose to do the walk on her own. Walking down also with your pet is memorable for the couple.
The most untraditional walk, and memorable is the couple walking together down the aisle.
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Meaningful Procession/Recession Music
Have music playing during the procession that is meaningful to the couple. Choosing the non-traditional way of walking down the aisle, have your bridesmaid and groomsmen dance during the procession, it could be a choreographed dance.
You can have an artist singing during the procession and recession a song that has sentiments to it.
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Show Off The Backdrop
The ceremony backdrop can be a flower backdrop that is beautiful and inviting to the guests.
The flower backdrop can be flowers that fit into your wedding aesthetic, and it could face a beautiful water fountain or ocean.
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Write Your Own Vows
For better or worse is a bit redundant but also has a classic touch to the words.
Although couples can opt to write their own vows, it could take time, but they can have so much meaning as this is the promise you are making for your marriage.
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Switch Up the Ceremony Structure
The guests can sit around the aisle. This way, the couple will feel closer to their guests.
The seating arrangement also allows more guests to have more sitting space.
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Have Fun With The Flower Girl
The flower girls can have some fun as they enter the aisle, and the little ones can walk down the aisle with props.
The little ones can walk with props such as gold wands and tiny seashells for a beach wedding.
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Ask Your Best Friend To Officiate
Having your bestie or even your favorite relative to officiate the wedding. This is such a memorable moment, and it can bring so many beautiful emotions.
The ceremony will also be ordained for free and save on costs.
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End The Vows With a Dance
You can end the vows with a dance, a short dance. You don’t have to wait for the first dance.
Then have a recessional dance with the bridesmaids and grooms and also the guests.
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End with a toast
Have a toast at the end of the ceremony. With your favorite drinks in hand have your guests toast to a new beginning to the couple's beautiful journey of marriage.
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Exit in Style
Have your guests participate as you exit. They can hold up ribbon wands or sparkles as they make an arch for your exit.
This way, the couple can exit with joy and mark the end of the ceremony.
Traditional Wedding Ceremony
Traditional weddings have existed for centuries. Although times have changed, couples have often gone the modern way of doing their wedding, but the traditions of a wedding are always there.
Traditional wedding is a time-honored tradition. Here are the steps for your traditional wedding.
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The Procession: The guests sit down, and the bride arrives.
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The word of welcome: Welcoming to the guests to the ceremony
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Opening remarks: A person will speak on the importance of marriage, usually the officiant, priest, or the person marrying.
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Readings(Usually Religious Texts): A lot of traditional weddings have scripture reading, or if not, the couple will have few reading words.
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Exchanging of the vows: The couple will exchange their vows.
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Kissing Time: The couple will then have their first kiss as married people.
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Optional unity ceremony: The unity ceremony is optional. It could be lighting a candle together or planting a tree together.
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Final Blessings: At this point, the officiant will say a word of prayer, and guests join to bless the union if it is a religious wedding.
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The recessional: The couple walks together down the aisle as two join together while guests throw flowers or confetti.
Love in Every Detail: How to Personalize Your Wedding Ceremony
Personalizing your wedding to be more unique to you and also to have your personal touch. Below are some of the ways you can personalize your wedding
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Trivia Cocktail Napkins
The wedding has many guests, and some people do not know the couple completely.
Have the cocktail napkins with bits of your love journey this way, your guests can know you more.
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Wedding Entrance Sign
Custom make your wedding welcome arch. The arch can be designed to have a flower arch, the couple's names written on the arch, and a fun quote to welcome your guests.
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A Wedding Lounge
Have an area where your guests can lounge. The wedding lounge can be near the bar or near the dance floor. This way, your guests are able to rest and mingle among themselves.
The wedding lounge is perfect for the reception.
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Patterned Dance Floor
Have the dances partnered with your favorite flowers or with your favorite art? The patterned dance floor can have colors that complement the wedding colors.
The floor is decorated with a vinyl wrap of the chosen pattern and has a bold print that is beautiful and inviting for guests to have a good time.
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Family Photos
Enlarge your family portraits to create a beautiful backdrop. The photo backdrop will be a perfect place for your guests to interact and also be used as a photo booth.
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Monogrammed Ice Cubes
Have monogrammed ice cubes if you are serving any drink on the rocks. The ice cubes can have the couple's initials.
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Choreographed Dance
The bridesmaids and grooms can have a dance-off. The dance is great entertainment for your guests. The bride can also have a dance-off with the groom.
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Proposal Slide show
Have a slideshow to show your guests the love journey. The slide show will also let your guests know you better. The photos can include the couple's best moments.
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Glass Toppers
Have cute glass toppers for your guest's drinks. The toppers will make the glass look like a well-crafted cocktail.
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Signature Cocktail Sign
Your signature drink should be well presented with a custom-made hand-illustrated sign.
The couple signs off the sign and also acts as a way of welcoming your guests to have fun.
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Printed Wedding Menu
A buffet or a sit-in reception has the wedding menu printed and handed to your guests as they arrive at the reception.
The menu will give your guests the type of food that will be served and also check on the allergies that can be in the food.
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Audio Guestbook
Have your guests record a message for the newlywed couples. A memorable way for guests to leave well wishes to the newly married couple.
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Love Lock Wall
Have a portable wall where guests can lock padlocks, and couples can lock the padlocks. To lock that love in!
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Handwritten vows
It does not get more personal than handwritten vows. After the wedding, the handwritten vows are mounted or framed to make it memorable for the couple.
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Embroidered Handkerchief
Handkerchiefs are not so modern, and they are rarely used. Have the handkerchief embroidered with couples' names; they can be kept as heirlooms.
It may seem insignificant, but it will keep your day memorable and sentimental between the couple.
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Reception Tent
The reception tent does not have to be boring, and the decor can include flowing from the roof. Include flowers in the drapes to enhance the beauty of the venue.
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Unexpected Seating
Away from the traditional sitting arrangement of tables and chairs. There are many ways to have your guests seated, and the guests can sit in a picnic style. The picnic style has throw pillows and rugs and decor flowers.
FAQs
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What are the best wedding ceremony ideas?
The ideas for your wedding ceremony depend on your personal taste and your wedding budget.
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How can I personalize my wedding?
Do research, and check DIY wedding ideas if your wedding is a budget wedding.
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How can I make my wedding ceremony unique?
Always do what best describes you as a couple. Check on the classic weddings. You will surely find something that is not being done in modern times.
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How do I navigate through all the information that is out there?
There is so much information out there with friends and family giving you advice. Always stay true to yourself and do what suits you as a couple.
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Do we have to do favors?
Wedding favors are a great way to invite your guests, but if they are not within your budget, you don't have to do it.
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How can I make my wedding successful?
Have a budget plan in place, have music, and entertain your guests as much as you can with your personalized wedding.
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What is the most memorable event during a wedding ceremony?
The walking down the aisle is always when your guests feel the ceremony has started. Choose the right music and decor, and enjoy yourself.